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What Horses Know About Grief

What Horses Know About Griefby: Francine BurghoornPublished on: 11/05/2026

Two losses. Two herds. What horses know about grief that we're only beginning to understand.

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What Horses Know About Grief

Can you be experienced with horses and still not understand them?

Can you be experienced with horses and still not understand them?by: Francine BurghoornPublished on: 14/04/2026

You're experienced. You care deeply. Things mostly work. But what if your horse has been trying to tell you something all along and you simply didn't have the language to hear it? A personal story.

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Can you be experienced with horses and still not understand them?

Something Was Off

Something Was Offby: Francine BurghoornPublished on: 19/03/2026

A story about trust, nervous systems, and a donkey who shows up. What happened when part of my herd got trapped on the wrong side of a fence and why it still surprises me, even after all these years.

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Something Was Off

Chop Wood, Carry Water

Chop Wood, Carry Waterby: Francine BurghoornPublished on: 16/02/2026

After storms and long winter weeks, sweeping the porch becomes meditation. A reflection on slowing down, nervous system rest, horses shedding, and the quiet return of movement as we enter the Year of the Fire Horse.

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Chop Wood, Carry Water

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Creating Calmness with your Horse in 5 Easy Steps.

A calming, practical starting point for horse lovers who want more ease, trust and true partnership - without force, formulas, or rushing.This guide will help you slow down, listen more deeply, and begin to rebuild your connection from the inside out- one soft step at a time.

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